Each partner answers separately Agree, Disagree or Uncertain. When finished, discuss with each other the thoughts, feelings, differences, couple and individual priorities that each FOCCUS item brought to mind.
	A = Agree D = Disagree U = Uncertain
1	We are in agreement about the husband and wife roles each of us expects of the other in our marriage relationship.
	A D U
2	There are qualities about my future spouse that I do not respect.
	A D U
3	We have discussed the ways our families solved problems and how this may affect our problem solving.
	A D U
4	We disagree with each other over some teachings of the church.
	A D U
5	My future spouse and I have agreed we will not have children.
	A D U
6	I am concerned that in-laws may interfere in our marriage relationship.
	A D U
7	My future spouse and I can talk about our sexual fears, hopes and preferences.
	A D U
8	We are in agreement about how we will make financial decisions between us.
	A D U
9	I sometimes feel that this may not be the right person for me to marry.
	A D U
10	My future spouse and I agree that our marriage commitment means we intend to pledge love under all circumstances.
	A D U

Copyright FOCCUS, Inc. 1985, 1997, 2000.
No reprinting or photocopying without permission. Statements taken from FOCCUS, Facilitating Open Couple Communication, Understanding & Study. FOCCUS, Inc., Omaha, Nebraska.