To get a sense of the REFOCCUS© Marriage Enrichment Inventory, view the 5 sample questions below taken randomly from the six questionnaires in the inventory.
Each partner answers separately:
Agree, Disagree or Uncertain
When finished, couples are encouraged to "go on a date" or spend time alone at home talking about the topics that sparked the most interest. Each member of the couple should pick two items (one area warranting celebration and one needing further discussion) to discuss at one time.
| Inventory Item | A = Agree | D = Disagree | U = Uncertain |
| 1) |
Marriage as a Process: I feel supported by my spouse during times of change and crisis: |
A |
D |
U |
| 2) |
Intimacy: We agree on decisions and dreams we have for the children in our relationship: |
A |
D |
U |
| 3) |
Compatibility: We disagree on what importance to give status, money and possessions in our lives. |
A |
D |
U |
| 4) |
Communication: I would like to changes some of the ways we solve problems in our relationship. |
A |
D |
U |
| 5) |
Commitment: I am fearful we have drifted from each other because we are caught up in day-to-day life. |
A |
D |
U |